Well W has admitted she is dating multiple men, she says currently I have a "few things going on" referring to her intrests, and I should of course move on as she has. So much for "not wanting a relationship" as she indicated early on. She is still upset about losing the first hearing and not getting the boatloads of $ she wasn't entitled to, so naturally she said she would be going for my pension and the max she can instead of her previous claim, "I will not take more than 100k, no matter what" and to not touch my pension. I knew that was balogna when she first said that obviously. Greed! It's such a shame to see what she has become. I suggested we put 1/2 of my IRA into a trust for the kids college, which is what we planned to use it for, she had no intrest in that... Sad! I will still be fighting for them to get what was intended to be theirs!
She still barely has the kids, in fact, this week she had them 1 day and on that day she dropped them off to be watched by her sister overnight, I suspect so she could party, bacause she certainly looked like she partied the next morn whenshe dropped the back off.
I told her since she is getting $ for watching them 1/2 the time and barely has them, she should considered having them on our shared days, which occur ever three months (that month she only has them one day per week). She became upset and stated she wanted to keep the schedule as it is, because she can get days to herself. I was like WTF, be a mother! I love my kids, but she needs to step up and take resposibility... Besides the kids need to see her more... They do enjoy seeing her... That's important for them regardless how I feel. So I plan to have the judge make her take them on those shared days, so she is forced to be more involved. I'm hoping she'll accept it and not cause a big display, she likely will.
