Relationship Discussions - When is ok?

[Scared2Def]

This is awesome all of you. I kind of agree that maybe she is also trying to adjust to my changes.

My wife and I spoke a bit last night about the kids, I actually brought it up but in a way that I asked her advice.

I specifically asked her what does she think I can or should do to connect with my 13 year old son. I told her some things like, I want to get re connected with him because I am now seeing that we never spent alot of son and dad time together and since he is closer to his mom (like most kids are) I wanted to know what she thought.

Anyway it turned out to be a nice calm conversation and then I decided to hit the sack.