Thank you all so much for the advice!! The party went well, but he did have to leave & go to Atlanta for a meeting this morning. He didn't know about it until yesterday morning before the game. His ex did not show up but at least I did meet some of his friends. They said that is him going to work all the time. I'm doing my best to be cautious. My radar is up for sure. But, just went I'm doubting him, he calls tonight. He is not feeling well, says he is still in Atlanta & will be back tomorrow. He is not good about calling so it was a surprise. I'm trying to back off a bit b/c I'm very scared! I do feel he is hiding something, but this guy that lives with him who is also is assistant told me yesterday that he shoots straight from the hip & tells the truth whether people like to hear it or not, so I still don't know b/c I feel he has lied to me before.
I know my ex's ow is in the US now, I'm not so sure he is tho. I thought he would be with her but from what I can understand he is not right now. All very strange!!
Thank you all for being here for me. I'll keep you posted.