I have been just trying to let the phone thing go. I need to trust my wife for now. I will never have the chance to see the phone anyway, and if I ever got caught looking, where would that leave me? She has to want to work on this, and right now I am pretty sure she is not going to. Funny thing that happened yesterday, she mentioned that it looks like I lost weight. I said "thank you" she asked how much, I told her and left it at that. Later, she was looking at me and I said "what" she said "just looking at how blue your eyes are" I didn't know what to say I just smiled and continued on. Is she trying to see if I will complement her? That is one of my faults of the past, never giving her props for doing a great job, or losing weight or whatever. Should I be complementing her now? Is that persuing? Keep in mind this is the same lady that made it very clear she doesn't love me 3 weeks ago. I am doing my best to listen, but sometimes I just think I am reading way to much into her every comment. I also said something in a joking manner last nite, and she smiled and said "now that is the old shaves I know". She must be seeing some change.(I hope). Same cold lady this morning though, not even a "have a good day".
