heck yeah man! I'm up for it. I'm as far west coast and south coast as you can get though
Let me ask you, do you still find yourself daily trying to speak her language? What things are you doing so you don't back slide?
One thing we are doing is weekly check-ins. We both talk about what the other has done during the week to make the other feel loved: compliments, touching, doing things for each other, respect, kind words. We also talk about times when we don't feel it. Disrespect, dishonor, blame, all the good stuff.
We then say what we'd like ourselves to work on. I'll say I want to do x or something. She then holds me to it the following week.
I look at it as us communicating much better. That way, there are no mis-communications that go on for more than 6 days.
It also takes pressure off of talking about the R every day. We really talk for one hour of one day. The other days, we simply enjoy being around each other.
Sounds easier than it is but its working so far.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
