Someone suggest H is having a MLC....I don't know?

[Truegritter]

I don't quite get what you mean here with the reference to a cheeseless tunnel and victimhood.

I mean your perspective is H is doing all these things TO you.

AND

YOU are choosing to let it affect you by becoming frustrated, angry _______ fill in the blank.

How is that working for YOU? The cheese at the end of that tunnel will taste bitter.

How do you percieve he's making choices for me?

You are letting him make you feel all that crap up there^^^^.

You are getting frustrated because of it.

Then who is in control?

Not you.

You are getting ready to make decisions for you and your family out of an emotional reaction you are having to H's bad behavior and choices.

Then he is making your choices for you? No?

You are allowing it. No?

Is that a place of weakness or strength?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Scylla, could you would you please make a new thread?

Thank you.