I agree 100% with 2Step MJ. You always seem to exude hope and optimism when you are posting about others' situations. You need to turn some of that towards yourself. I believe that a huge part of this DB thing is having a PMA and BELIEVING that things really will turn around.

I think that it is easier to see those small victories, even the tiniest ones, when we are positive rather than negative.

Man, you know that I am in your corner. Just focus on being happy for yourself and your D's right now. Don't focus so much on your M situation.

I know that my last post about going dark didn't sound all that positive to you. I was just telling you that you need to apply the DB strategies and be positive about them working for you.

You will be happy again MJ. Hang in there.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce