I will get caught up on your thread and jump in. I have read it but need to get more familiar.
I am still guarded about my success. I think I will need a year or more before I feel 100% confident but I see no bad things going on.
I am STILL insecure about things. Mostly because of OM and the lies and all the sneaking that goes along with it. We need to build trust again. But MC has us doing an excersize for the next time we meet. W and I need to make a list of unresolved issues buried deep within us. Bring them to the surface, discuss them, reassure one another, forgive, and move on. I am really looking forward to this... It will be a cleansing... And I can bring up all the things I have been unable to discuss because of no "R" talk...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012