Hi Verysad, This is difficult. The hardest part is giving them space without knowing if it will bring them back.
Becuase if we KNEW that it would work we would keep going.
And if we KNEW that it wouldn't work we would cut our losses NOW!
There is no easy answer Verysad. This will take will power. Keep one thing in mind, your health is more important then your R. You need to make the best decisions for your health. If that means to keep going, DO IT! If that means to call it quits, DO IT! If that means kicking him out, DO IT!
Do what's best for verysad.
((((verysad)))) - Wish I could give you a real hug...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012