Originally Posted By: tadpole1025

I can't believe my emotions today. Sometimes I feel like the MLCer. One minute I'm sad, then angry, then hopeful, then indifferent, then sad again.


It's called the "bounce"

One day you are up, the next you are down...

As hard as it is, recognize this for you, and even this out. Most times, the "up" moments come from you focusing on yourself...

The "down" moments come from your focus being too much on what she is doing, or not doing.

Too far down and you can send invites to a Pity Party !!! Then you can get on your hamster wheel and spin for days...

When that would happen for me, I would get lost in the Archives and read for hours...sometimes for days.

Seriously, these patterns tend to follow our balance. The more you read and understand MLC, the more these will even out for you.

Take the time to "feel" these things though.


Let them wash you over and process them in a healthy , emotional way.




Originally Posted By: tadpole1025

I'm wondering too. If we were able to go back in time, is this something that we could have stopped? Or would it have happened anyways?


If this is MLC, then that chapter was written a long time ago...


Are there things you did to help it along ?

Sure..

Just not entirely on your shoulders...