I'm piling on to what Mach said. It does go against our judgment to sit back and "not do anything." But she has to figure out her problems.

Her saying that you are spying on her...I don't know what to say about that. Sounds like she's projecting and is very defensive but I'm not qualified to give an opinion on that.

But then again, that's her problem, right?

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE