Nic1, good question and I wish I had the answer for it. Maybe somebody will post?

I can't believe my emotions today. Sometimes I feel like the MLCer. One minute I'm sad, then angry, then hopeful, then indifferent, then sad again.

I'm wondering too. If we were able to go back in time, is this something that we could have stopped? Or would it have happened anyways?

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13