Mach - I take from your impression of thins that I should respect my wife's wishes and not speak to them at all.
Setting your problems aside for a minute to think...
IF things were normal...
Would you go against her wishes ?
Originally Posted By: sparks14
I just feel that there have been so many lies from her. I have no idea what to believe. For all I know, she could have avoided all mention of the affair and told them that I hit her and she was seeking divorce. I have no idea. I just want to clear the air and provide some sort of positive communication. I don't wish to alienate my wife from her parents at all.
Whatever she has told them, no matter how much it eats you up to not know...
It is between them for now...
Look Sparks....what she tells them or anyone around her...those are her feelings, and her truth.
Doesn't really matter if they are true or not, they are how she feels.
So, if this love for her is what you say it is...how can you not respect her truths ?
I see you striving so hard to fix this with her instead of letting her figure this out on her own.
I see your point. As a communicator, I am blind to the fact that no communication at all can be healthy. That is a tough pill for me to swallow.
I sense a lot of sit back and wait for things to happen approach. That is very difficult to do. I just need to sit back, take care of myself and the baby, and leave my wife alone to figure out her own problems. Much easier to write than to perform. Thanks, Mach
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
