It's been a few months, so I thought I'd give a short update.
I filed for D almost two weeks ago. I did file a temporary custody order to keep W from taking the kids like she has threatened to do. I gave her a couple of weeks to find somewhere to stay. If she refuses to leave, I will get an order for her to vacate. She has been nasty and combative, even though this is what she says she wants.
I have made many changes in my life. I am healthier, more active with my kids, church, I am playing in a band, again, and I try to not have such a pessimistic view of life. Things will get better and I will be okay.
Face your fears head on, trust your instincts and be true to yourself. Lessons that are hard to learn and I still struggle with, daily. We are all a work in progress. Live and learn and accept things that are out of your control.
Do not try the Little Bo-Peep method. Don't waste your time. IT WILL NOT WORK, EVER!
"Faith, hope and love.... But the greatest of these is love."
Be true to yourself and your values. Never doubt what is right and what is wrong. We will all thrive again. Never, ever doubt it.
