Glad to hear you are doing well. I hope your job and life are more than "okay". I know that it takes time to heal all of the wounds from this mess. I know things will be better for all of us than just "okay", eventually.
I understand your committment to your M vows. At least you know, after the D is final, that you do have some options out there. You are an intelligent, interesting guy and have much to offer the right young lady.
Love those kids with all of your heart and be the rock that they need you to be as this transition continues for them. We mourn the loss of their innocence and the fact that we "failed" to protect them. At least, that's how I feel. But, it wasn't your choice to tear the family apart. Talk to them and listen to them. Be honest and truthful with them. Most of all, love them and hold them. Show them what it means to grow into a loving, responsible adult who has healthy boundaries and one who stands tall and meets life's challenges head on and does the best that he can with honor and dignity.
