He'll miss you when you aren't being so attentive to him. Start doing things for yourself and not to try and get a reaction out of him.
I warn you though. It will be difficult. Once you start pulling away, he will start complaining that you are being "cold", or acting like a b*tch, etc. Just ignore those actions.
Think of him like a child. If he doesn't get attention, he will do everything he can (including throwing a tantrum) to get it from you. Don't fall into it. You are strong enough to do it.
Start living your life and going out to do the things YOU enjoy doing. That's how you get him to miss you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.