UPDATE 11:45am

Have a 3 o'clock appointment with a DB coach! Is there anything I should know or prepare before I speak to the coach? Any tips to make the most of the time?

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112