I like to be able to see what my husband is up to or read his boring posts about work. It makes me feel like i'm a part of his life still. I even 'liked' a status update last week because it had something to do with a project that he was working on that i'm a part of.. other than that I absolutely do not comment on anything.
I don't want him to think i'm keeping tabs although he posted a pic of himself sitting in someone's living room and it was uploaded on the week day that the OW doesn't have her son so i know he was with her those nights during the affair and figured it was her place.. i kept staring at the pic and noticed that there were framed pics on the wall behind him that weren't her or her family and she doesn't own a dog.. So i was wondering who the heck's place it was !! lol .. torture !
I think unfriending her at this point would send a bad message. I would be devastated if my H unfriended me, i was heartbroken when he changed his R status to separated. I chose to leave that blank. It's unfortunately a double edged sword. Just try to ignore the things that she posts that seem directed at you or how great her life is without you etc. and all the things that may hurt as hard is at may be. That kind of thinking is poison.
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