yes but you are worried too much about what he is thinking or what he is doing. You are worried about the results of what you are doing. What I am saying is do YOU and not worry about what he is thinking or how he is making his bed or if he wants to sleep on the couch or not.
You want to ask him "what is this"......Don't. Right now you take it as it comes but make sure you are living for you and no one else.
Put those feelings aside and just concentrate on positives in yourself, the rest will come around.
