You protest too much! You are looking for an excuse. Don't use your son and call it FB ediquette.

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shouldn't I be the bigger person and be appreciative of what my wife is doing with our son, etc?


You means as in breaking up the family?

All anyone (most of all your W) would see is how weak and pathetic any type of response would be. Don't do it. Detach, detach, and detach some more.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!