As the Bolt Turns

[Bolt]

I got asked a question on a different thread and kinda wanted to answer it here.

It does seem that my sitch's turnaround has happened relatively quickly when the real answer is it hasn't.

I lost my job about 18 months ago. I worked as one of the top dogs on a television series and was "let go" because of another woman's perception of what was going on in the workplace. Absolutely NOTHING happened in the least bit - I'm very outgoing and flirty with EVERYONE (even guys although I am NOT bisexual at all) - I tease everyone and expect it in return.

Anyway, after I was let go, my W wanted out. Things had been hard for her for about 4 years at that point and the firing was the last straw. I enrolled in AA (did the 90 meetings in 90 days) before I realized I wasn't an alcoholic. W and I went to MC, I changed who I was, yadda yadda - I thought things were going great.

Three months ago was where all hell started to come. I got the REAL bomb right before Christmas and have been DBing my butt off since.

So, I guess my sitch went(and is) like this. W - 4 years of unhappiness that I was unaware of.
18 months on top of that of Bolt trying to change.
2 months of solid DBing.

Hope that kinda clears things up.

I do know I have a long way to go for sure.