Thanks everyone. I've gotten so much support and advice from this board. Today, I just feel like venting. I guess I'm just having a bad day. I had heard of MLC before, but never EVER thought that it would affect my world. I just can't believe it. I haven't talked to W in almost a week and would like to call her more than anything. I know I shouldn't though. Have to be strong. I wonder how she is feeling, what she is doing, if she's even thinking about our marriage or feeling guilty, how her day is going, how her job is going....It is hard to try to be a friend when she won't even contact me. How can I be a friend to her? Also, any ideas about what to do for Valentine's Day? Do I get her anything? Call her? Just let the day go by?
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13