Wow Hope. Your H continues to remind me of the old me every time you post. I'm not sure what is going to change with him under the present circumstances. I'm really unsure of the advice to give you here. I think that you are doing great with the things that we talked about earlier though. And it does seem to be making a positive impact. It's the selfish nature of your H, which I can relate very well to, that I'm not sure about. The my way or the highway attitude.

I think that for right now, I'd keep doing what you are doing and try to get the M on more solid foundation... keep putting distance from the WAS incident of a few weeks ago. Then reassess.

What kind of R talk are you wanting to have? Why are you in such a hurry?

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce