As the Bolt Turns

[Denver_2010]

One minor thing - for the guys to look for when you talk to your W - LOOK at her when she's talking, either to you or a group of people. We had a few friends over for the Super Bowl yesterday and were all chatting. W was at one end of the huge couch and I was at the other. Every time she chatted, I would show her my full attention (football be damned!) and you know what? She really only looked at me when she was talking. You know when you have that eye contact where neither one of you pulls away? That was happening all game.

I know that may seem minor but I truly feel that it meant a TON to her. I was paying attention to her EVEN when something I was truly interested in was going on. I know that will pay back.

The funny thing is that I WANTED to be engaged with her that way. That's the new bolt

Hell, I think that I'm falling for the "New Bolt"!!! LOL...

Seriously though, I think that is awesome! That's how I'd like to be with my W too. I'm going to tuck your experience away and use it when the time comes.

Thanks

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Denver