S2D - I go back to the MC and what W said - She can see changes but is afraid to get burned again, right?

Well, right now she's seeing if you indeed ARE changed. This is the HARDEST part because you feel like you've changed and can do it when she's around but what about when she isn't on the same page as you? THAT'S the hard part.

THAT'S when you really need to show that you've changed. I do like that you are coming here to vent. Do NOT vent to her like, "Why did you sleep on the couch again?" That would set you back so I'm glad you aren't doing that.

But this is where you stay strong. Hey, she's in the same house as you. Keep doing the detachment thingy and DEFINITELY GAL.

Like I said, I go back to the counseling. Look at what she said and take it to heart. Keep working!!!


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE