after a little more than a year i am back

[Denver_2010]

2Step and Bolt are giving you good advice re your meeting with H today. I would just add that you should keep the talk about the house and not the R per se. What I mean is, YOU should not bring it up.

What struck me about your last post was learning a little more about your parents and how your H has helped you with them for years.

Has he ever complained about doing this?

Have you ever considered that this has been a burden on him, and how he views the M, that maybe he hasn't acknowledged even to himself, let alone you?

BITS
Denver