you are DEAD ON! See? You know her and know what she will do. Well, guess what? If you continue to do what you are doing (the good things) she WILL do that.
I thought the same thing with my W. I KNEW that if she went out to find herself, she would be disappointed with what was out there. I knew her better than anyone BUT I had to let her find it out on her own. That took a TON of patience.
She found out exactly what I thought and came running back.
The worst thing about patience is that it takes more time than we ever imagine to get. I guess that's the point, right?
you can do it!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE