Not to mind read or anything like that, but repoorting a couple observations.

Yesterday W and I sat at mass together, while S12 sat with the boy scouts (boy scout sunday).

Well for the first time since I've known her, she declined to go up for communion.

The previous (Saturday) afternoon we were talking about something (I don't remember what) and called her honey out of habit (actually over the years I almost never adress her by her name) she said curtly "Don't call me honey."

I can understand all this. Just reporting, not analyzing.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."