You seem to be happy and have peace of mind. Your R with your H must be OK. That is great.
I am not sure about my W. Still in limbo land. Not sure also when she is willing to work on our R. Two weeks ago I asked her whether she wants to go to Retro weekend. She declined. So I did not pursue further. If she wants to stay, why does not she want to improve our R? Does she want to live like this all her life? She can move out and live her own life. Nobody stops her. Why does she stay? A lot of questions, no answer.
