Issue has not gone away. W drove D15 to school again this morning. I get an emai at work from W saying a talk with D did not go well and W is VERY upset. Again, W tried to convince D to go live with her. I guess D said she would only live with W 'as long as she had to'.
I find this heart wrenching myself, that as a mother your D doesn't want to be with you. It sounds like D is blaming W for all this (perceptive?). I have not spoken badly or placed blame on W, but the M in general. Is D that more perceptive? Perhaps. I do not like this resentment towards one parent though. I will have to have a long discussion with her very soon.
W emailed high school counsellor this morning telling the situation and asking for intervention. She did this without asking me. I do NOT think this is cool and I agree that school should be a safe zone. I will set up separate C for the kids which would be better i think. I have to respond quickly to W about this...i just have to figure out how to.
Things have got messy, but now my W sees its not all easy sailing.
