Hi Sandi2,

Replied to you from my phone a few days ago - sometimes that works sometimes it doesn't. (sorry if you get two replies) What attracts me to W? From her blues to her tiny feet she is beautiful without being intimidating, graceful in a goofy way, fun, adventurous, living in the moment. I love her laugh and smile. She is always "present", like the past and future just don't exist for her. She has a wonderful style - a way of talking, dressing, being that is unique. She is sarcastic and whip smart, instantly the center of attention. I'm also quite fond of the gray hairs she occasionlly finds as well. (Looking at this list it's almost like SHE is the one DBing.)

Many of these things I love about her are also symptoms of her upbringing and the same things that make things hard now. But that's sort of what you were getting at, wasn't it Sandi2?????