Thank you, Financially i cant do alot at the moment regarding the expert help but your words make sense to me. Im now alone as she has gone back, i have kinda stuck to my guns over moving away, she said she is gutted, but i feel im right to do that, i need to gain some strength here about going dark i think so any help i would be so grateful for, i use face book and she wants me there every night may be that would be somewhere to start...kevc
