Quick Post and I will be back to reply to everyone's posts a little later on.

D tells me; 1. ow and her s are moving in temporarily with h as the house they rent has sold and she hasn't got anything else. Temporarily???
2. H has been offered a job locally
3. H wants to come to watch D swim at national comp around easter.

All it tells me is she seems here to stay so I need to keep facing facts but I do honestly miss what we once had..