Part of it is for me. Part of it is because what I'm doing is clearly not helping or working.
I understand. You're trying anything and everything right now. It's part of the process.
Originally Posted By: Scylla_Charibdis
If I'm persona non grata, may as well get the h3ll out of Dodge in a manner of speaking.
As long as you're not checking the rear view mirrors as your stagecoach pulls out of town to make sure he's looking, you should be okay.....
Originally Posted By: Scylla_Charibdis
Having contact with him causes me emotional pain right now. I literally dread recieving a text or hearing/seeing the phone ring with his name and number displayed. It's like having my nose rubbed in it.
He doesn't go bananas, and he's no threat to the kids.
Yup- right there with you. I remember that nauseating, heart palpitating feeling all too well...
Going dark for SELF preservation is what I meant by the ape$#!+ remark. And that goes for emotional self preservation, too.
PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS. -Ralph Waldo Emerson
DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE. -Jimbo