No MJ. Probably not reading too much into it. Your W wants nothing to do with you RIGHT NOW. The million dollar question is how to get her to snap out of that. I understand that you can't go dark at least until you take care of the job sitch, but once you do, I'd move into a new place where you can have the kids, work out a schedule with W as to who has kids on what days, and GO DARK.

I honestly don't think that your sitch is going to get any better until your W has a period of darkness where she can be distracted of her hateful thoughts that she has right now with thoughts of "I wonder what MJ is doing, haven't heard from him... I miss when MJ you to do this or that..." Darkness gives you the time to become emotionally stable and WAS time to heal from wounds and begin to think about healthier emotions related to then ending the M. She doesn't have a chance to begin to feel those emotions right now bc all she thinks about is how she wants you gone.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce