I have done everything wrong....

[islander]

FOBD, Thanks for your input.
I have decided not to contact the OM or his W.
I am not going to send W the letter I wrote. I will take the advice I have been given and let my actions speak for me. Actions are more important than anything I could possibly say.
I want her to feel guilty for what she has done, and I will not relieve her of any of it. That is one of the benefits of going dark I guess.

W just responded to my text and wrote ok. I am going to wait for her to contact me about the lunch again. I will put it back on her.

I am very nervous a out having lunch with W. It is strange to feel that way. I hope I did not make a mistake. It is literally killing me inside that my formerly intelligent W fell so low and is now living with OM. I will restrain myself during our lunch. It will be a first for me though. I cant even imagine what we are going to talk about.

I can't figure out how to start a new thread.