I wish that I could tell you 2Step. I've been struggling with this for a couple of weeks now. I really think that you need to apply what you have learned here and in DR/DB, but also use your instincts. Obviously I don't know your W, so take this for what it's worth. But from what I've read, I think that you need to give her a little more time before you do anything but what you currently are.

Remember the bottom line, number one, principle of divorce busting... DO WHAT WORKS!!

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce