I do have a question though. Something happened and I don't know the reason for it. Let me explain:
Two weekends ago when I went to pick up S16, she invited me in and we spent over an hour talking on her couch. No R talk, just stuff about her job etc. It was nice like nothing had even happened. I enjoyed it. It almost seemed like old times.
The following weekend when I went to pick up S16, she wouldnt even let me in. What happened? Is this typical MLC behavior? This is all so confusing!!!
Ug!
Thanks for responding.
Tad, my ex did the same things. On one instance, he was talking to my son and told son i could call or come over anytime i wanted. (my son was asking me to stay away from his dad because of the anger), so this thre son and i for a loop. Samr day he called son and told him to tell me to come pick up some lightbulbs i needed, I ended up taking a nap in his recliner! He could not have been nicer, even fed me supper. The next visit he wouldnt even let me in and the fight was on, i didnt back down, I am not bragging because it was stupid of me, I was dealing with a child I should of been smart enough to walk away. I, like u, thought he wa coming around each time he was his nice selk. PLEASE dont expect this every time, That is what is so awful about this, the unexpected. I think its like they show their old self for an instant and then hide again. If u want to know what not to do than read my threads. I think others will agree. Hang in there, its a long rd.
