Kelli,

Wow, I can sense the strong Kelli is back again. That is good.

I think your H is glad that you have forgiven him. He did not believe it initially. Now he is relieved and wants to work on your R. I think it is the best if your H changes job. He will be happier, and also not seeing the ow again. Out of sight, out of mind.

The om's W is now starts calling my W at home. The om has no intention of moving out or leaving his W. I hope my W realizes that the om is not worth the trouble.

I am just wondering whether it is good idea to ask my W to go to Retro weekend. Last Aug we have cancelled it as I saw no point since my W decided to move out. My W is still saying that she wants to move out in May, when our rental property is free. But I am not sure about her real intention.

Raindeer