hope it was fun for you i truly do think you know how much to mix the dbing technique with what you know about your wife because of my husbands abandonment issues, i knew last year, that if i went completely dark on him, he would be gone so trust your gut, denver and be careful...a few of the things you say, do seem a bit "too available" i do like the "i'd walk through the gates of hell line" i think that is very masculine and we, as women, like to feel taken care of sometimes
