My wife was always the voice of our family - she was the one that posted pictures, videos, updates, etc. I did not have an account.
When the separation occur, one of my 180s/GALs was to come out of my shell and make friends or reconnect with people I know. Hence, I started my FB account. And I've made it a point that my updates and comments in FB were not going to be depressing, about our situation, or just sounding like a whinny baby (at least, I hope I'm not). Occasionally I put in motivation quotes, or sayings/Bible verses that mean a lot to personally at a given moment. It's interesting that when I signed up for FB back in November, I entered "separated" under relationship status, and when my wife befriended me, she must've saw that, and I kid you not, she immediately changed hers from "married" to "separated" as well. Don't know if it was an oversight of hers that she forgot to change her status, but I mean, c'mon.
With that said, should I now un-friend her, then? Going dark is one thing, but this is like cutting her out and giving her the message that I don't want anything to do with her.
