Grace - I actually do know what causes things to escalate. It is me. I always seem to question, ask about R or get an attitude. This is something I need to work on and I'm doing it, but it is hard. So very hard.

I do have a question though. Something happened and I don't know the reason for it. Let me explain:

Two weekends ago when I went to pick up S16, she invited me in and we spent over an hour talking on her couch. No R talk, just stuff about her job etc. It was nice like nothing had even happened. I enjoyed it. It almost seemed like old times.

The following weekend when I went to pick up S16, she wouldnt even let me in. What happened? Is this typical MLC behavior? This is all so confusing!!!

Ug!

Thanks for responding.

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13