I know my W is still contacting the om at work. I know they still sending sms messages after work. But it is nothing I can do about it. I understand your feeling. But thinking about it only hurts you. I wish your H could give you the assurance you are looking for. I have been also waiting for a long time. But I am not sure I will get it.
Now I have accepted the fact that my W does not stop talking to the om. I just hope she will realise one day that it does not help our R.
I am also talking to other women on any subject. I know my W was checking my cellphone. I am not sure whether it is a jealousy or something else. As long as she does not stop talking to the om, my W has no right on exclusivity that I should not talk to any other women.
