Okay, need some advice. My wife has said many times recently "want this to go well between us". I think she means, when she moves out, that we do not do hurtful things to each other to make our lives more difficult. She also seeks my constant approval for her as a mother. It comes up everytime we are together. Right now, she spends a ton of time on herself, and a suitable amount of time with the kids, but not as much as when things were normal (before in house separation). She also asks "I want to know what you think of me?" I really dont know what to tell her. She also has been buying the kids things here and there to what I feel is spoiling them. Not big things, but alot more "suprizes" than before. What is she doing? I think she has alot of guilt building that the family is going to be split. But she still is 120% sure she is moving out. Still never ever sets her phone out, never leaves her side. This is very hard for me not to point this out. It really seems like she is hiding something. When she is done texting or what ever it always goes face down or back in her pocket. If she isn't doing anything fishy, why so secretive? Why seek my approval as a mother? I know I have a ways to go to loose my interest in her life away from me. I wish I could flip the switch.
