Okay..I just caught up on your thread...Get that DB book out and start rereading it pronto! It's okay that your feeling like you are...but, know that he is super confused and not sure at all about staying gone. That's clear from his actions.
Your have to take the stance that you do not agree w/this. But, this is his choice. But, that you are moving forward with your life. So, since he is calling and texting so much...maybe don't answer all of them, be busy call him back kinda thing.
Your doing good LIS...I know this is so hard and confusing right now. It's the worst thing...But, we are here for ya!!
I'm praying for your Dad and your H. I'm praying for you!!!
You can do this...I know you can...just breathe and regroup
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010