Jack, I'm sure you are right. Again. Right now, since we usually end up in a confrontation when we do speak, I'm just going to go dark for a while and try to be nice and "act as if" when we do speak. Is this the right move for now?

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13