Your comment about your W just hit a chord with me Denver.
When I was in OK I told my W jokingly I was looking for a place to live. We kind of laughed it off. Then the next day she said how is your search going, I said I stopped looking she said "oh"
M "Why would I move back here?"
W "I don't know. To sweep your W off her feet again"
of course that was in December.
Also in the DB session when Jody asked what can H do to show changes W said "I don't know. I guess he did show up at my mom’s door step"
Those are two comments that lead me to believe she would like some kind of effort on my part but then that is where the complications come in. What is too much/not enough?
Denver your W would like to see effort, you have at least two examples of this, last nights talk and FIL's comment, where do you draw the line?
