Just give it a day or two 2Step. The similarities between our W's doesn't need to be talked about anymore, but your concerns have been mine ever since my FIL told me that W was telling M that she didn't think that I loved her bc I wasn't doing anything to woo her back.

I think that she will probably reach out to you within a couple of days. And if she doesn't, I don't think that there would be anything wrong with you calling her to see how she's doing. IMO, I don't think that you need to go dark on your W. But you do need to walk that fine line between staying in the friend zone and not letting her think that you are at her beckon call. Let instinct guide you but not fear.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce