hi - sorry work kicks my butt on friday and saturday nights but i think she still needs time, but she def wants to make sure you are still in the game your dbing i working, she is getting worried that you might not be there i think your responses are reassuring to her, and she needs that, but at the same time, i think you might be slightly less available? (question mark because of course you know her best) it doesn't hurt to have her guessing a bit you are in this for the long haul, it is not going to be a quick fix zen is right about retouville, not now and i also think she is right about the superbowl go find a party with some good friends and have a good time don't be discouraged you are doing great