BTW, Zen and SCylla, excellent responses. My heart goes out to you as well. It is all consuming and there must be a way to move on. I have tried reading Tolle, the power of NOW but cant seem to sustain it for long.

Time is the doctor they say in Greece.

God bless all and hope for better days ahead. They have to b.

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BombDec.19/09
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Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11